Alisha<3 said: U KNOW AGE HAS NUMBER.. 
i am asking the number...
should explain more or this is enough???
YAAR SHE SED HES 22 NAA!
well sherice, it is quite a complex situation u have there becuz there isnt any straight forward solution to this!
i think u need to tell ur bf bout the way u feel regarding his ex, im sure he wont take any offense if u break it to him in the right manner!talk about it seriously and maturely rather than screaming and moaning about it!
thin is ur bf isnt that old either!
wat u need ot find out from him is if there relationship was a very long one or if it was a short one ,remember that havin a child doesnt determine the lenght r the strenght of there relationship!
there is alot of negatively about step moms around the place but at the end of the day, if u love him, u have to be willing to take on all these situation and risks!
at the end of the day, ppl talk, there is no stopping them, and thats a known fact so, u have to be able to ignore comments cumin from strangers and concentrate on those that are near to u and the ones u care about!
its hard to risist havin to defend urself for sumthin u havent done, but it isnt impossible!
i dont think u shud be feelin guilty bout nothing and all, its soo natural to think that ud rather start ur married life without a child, but then, life aint always a straight forward!
so, u need to ask ur bf how serious he is about the relationship he shares with u and how serious he was about his ex and also ask him wat the situation with the both of them is now!
the longer u keep it to urself, the worst its gona be for u, the problem is not gona take any sort of apositive turn unless u talk to ur bf about it and if possible, u shud also talk to his ex aswell, that is if ur on good terms with her!
wish u da besta luck!
